feat(notifications): add unified multi-channel notification system

Introduces a fully featured notification system with three delivery
channels (in-app, email, webhook), normalized per-user/per-event/
per-channel preferences, admin-scoped notifications, scheduled trip
reminders and version update alerts.

- New notificationService.send() as the single orchestration entry point
- In-app notifications with simple/boolean/navigate types and WebSocket push
- Per-user preference matrix with normalized notification_channel_preferences table
- Admin notification preferences stored globally in app_settings
- Migration 69 normalizes legacy notification_preferences table
- Scheduler hooks for daily trip reminders and version checks
- DevNotificationsPanel for testing in dev mode
- All new tests passing, covering dispatch, preferences, migration, boolean
  responses, resilience, and full API integration (NSVC, NPREF, INOTIF,
  MIGR, VNOTIF, NROUTE series)
 - Previous tests passing

server/tests/helpers/test-db.ts

@@ -56,6 +56,7 @@ const RESET_TABLES = [
   'vacay_plans',
   'atlas_visited_countries',
   'atlas_bucket_list',
+  'notification_channel_preferences',
   'notifications',
   'audit_log',
   'user_settings',